Keeping secrets and playing surreptitious games was real fun during our growing years. But, as you grow older and get tied in relationships, especially in the marriage ties, such secrets can be the cause of destroying and disturbing your relationship with your partner. Keeping secrets not only hampers the delicate relationship you share with your partner, but it also widens the gap and breaks the trust that you share with your spouse.

Thus the trust that took years to build is broken within friction of seconds and you no longer feel the emotion of ‘oneness’. In fact, experts says that keeping secrets affects health of the individual who keeps secrets, causes problems like pains and aches in the body, and also troubles the digestive system.

Being married, you suffer greater issues by not sharing secrets with you spouse because no matter how trivial the secret is, it definitely breaks the heart of the partner, and widens the gap of trust. In such situations, it is difficult to keep your marriage go normal. Moreover, deceit of such nature also creates suspicion and doubt in the mind of the partner.

One of the most common secrets that couples keep from each other is related to money or finances. Couples who keep such secrets justify them by saying that they have the right to privacy. However, it is just another excuse. So, if you want to get closer to your spouse and make your marriage work better, don’t keep secrets.